Whether you have been with the same partner for a long time, or you still out in the dating field, it is important that you know how to spice things up in the bedroom.
Go somewhere. Get out of the bedroom to have sex. This is a good way to switch things up without doing anything drastic. You can get creative by going camping, staying in a hotel, or anything else that you can think of.
Eye contact. Making eye contact really changes things in the bedroom. You do not need to have a staring contest, but making eye contact makes the moment more intimate.
A new point of view. Try having sex in the bathroom. You can watch yourself and your partner which can be a turn on.
Keep your clothes on. Try only remove clothing that you need to. Take off her panties, unzip only you fly, and so on. This can help to heat up your sex session.
Show and tell. You can show your partner where you want to be touched, and then tell them why it feels good. This causes a little bit on constraint, but it can make the moment very intense.
Blindfold your partner. This is a way for your partner to get to know your body. Either of you can be blindfolded, but it is a good way to have your body explored intimately.
Use a timer. Set a timer and during this time you cannot touch anywhere under the belt. This should be about thirty minutes. It may seem like a long time, but this will build anticipation, only making the moment of climax sweeter.
No hands. Do not use your hands to touch your partner for the whole session. This can make it hotter as you explore each other with only your lips, skin, and breath.
Sexy trivia. This is a good way to get to know your partner, as well as let your partner get to know you. Every answer that your partner gets correct, you have to take off a piece of clothing. It will be like being teenagers playing stupid games again.
Try sex dice. As long as you are trying spice it up in the bedroom, you might as well try sex dice. These dice will give you commands on what to do with your partner, plus it can be type of funny with some of the combinations that may pop up.
Find an alter ego. Be the opposite of your normal self in bed. If you are quiet and more reserved, try not to be in bed. If your partner is more quiet and reserved, try switching personalities and see where the night takes you.
Sex playlist. Have music with all different tempos and genres on this playlist. You and your partner can go to the tempo, this will be sure to spice things up.
Send a sexy message. Send a message to your partner during the day. This will create anticipation for when the two of you get home.
Give a sexy massage. Massages are a great way to get going in the bedroom. They will help both you and your partner to loosen up before sex. It will also help because massages can be very intimate.
Try a new position. You do not need to try a hundred new positions every night, instead try a new one every time. This can get you and your partner excited for the next time that you hop in the sack.
No morning sex. Yes, morning sex is great, but if you wait until the end of the day instead, you will both spend the day in anticipation. You can also postpone your morning sex to a little bit later in the morning. This can be a surprise for your partner, but definitely don’t wait until they are trying to rush out the door.
Role play. Role playing is a good way to get things started in the bedroom. It can be fun for both of you to try to be someone else in the bedroom, and it may even open doors to things you two have ever done before. As long as you both are comfortable, this is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom.
BDSM. This is a great way to spice up things in the bedroom. Try breaking out the handcuffs or whatever you like so that you and your partner can both experience some new excitement in the bedroom. This will also put you or your partner in complete control, which can be very exciting.
Eat. Try eating sexy things in the bedroom, like strawberries and whip cream. You can use these foods to be very sensual in the bedroom. It can excite you and your partner and help to spice things up in the bedroom, if you’re cool with getting food on the sheets.
Be silent. Try having silent sex. This can be challenging for both you and your partner and can create a few laughs. This is a good thing as you two will be happy to be with each other while also get in some serious intimacy.
Movie night. Movie nights are probably a regular thing, but make it a dirty movie night. If you watch an explicit film it can turn you both on, you may not even make it through the whole movie!
Buy a present for both of you. If you’re not sure what to get your partner, buy a present that will benefit the both of you. Buy her some lingerie, you can even take her shopping with you. This will help to get the anticipation up and it is a gift that will benefit the both of you; she will feel sexy and you get to see her in the lingerie.
Communication is key. Communicating in the bedroom is the best way to keep things fresh. If you know what your partner wants, and they know what you want, it should never get boring in the bedroom.
